Here is my main inspiration photo. I'd like to do something similar to this- but a little less old:

Change out the light fixture with this (has Ho HO written all over it. Sparkle, shabby chic, luxury...)
http://www.lampsplus.com/Products/Kathy-Ireland-Dorset-6-Light-Crystal-Chandelier__78588.html- $195
Change the dining room out with something a little more sleek:
Add a contrasting chair with a nice cushion:
http://www.westelm.com/products/f046/?cm_src=rel-$189
Romantic Mirror- check.
The Kitchen:
Possible Back splashes- All from http://www.theglassmosaicoutlet.com/dust.html all around- $300
Appliances- www.lowes.com- $2200
Countertops- all $8.00 sq ft from http://www.builddirect.com/Quartz-Slabs/quartz-slabs-Spa/ProductDisplay_9678_c2_10057636.aspx
White cabinets- $1500 http://www.kitchenspro.com/Catalog/Style/vgm
Add decorative touches- luxe blankets, plush furniture, vintage pieces, as well as floral- you've got yourself a house fit for the BOH.